So you think your partner is behaving suspiciously? Maybe they seem more distant than usual, or perhaps they’ve been coming home late with a world of excuses up their sleeve.
But before you jump to conclusion, it is important to do some sleuthing of your own and conduct your own “research”. Take a look at some of their information, or track the steps of their day to know what they have been up to.
We’re listing down some of the best ways you can find out what your partner may have been hiding, and see if they have been doing something sneaky on the down low.
Check Out Their Bank Statements
There’s a reason why money trails are one of the best ways to find out down-low, dirty dealings. Where, how and on what someone spends their money is a tell-tale sign of their life and what they have been doing. If you and your partner own a joint account, then checking out expenses will be easy.
However, they’re most probably going to be using their own account to supplement any infidelity they are engaging in, so you’ll have to figure out a way to get their banking information. Expenses at expensive restaurants, and spending on make-up and jewellery.
Download and Install Special Apps
Nowadays, social media applications have made cheating much easier to be honest, but there are also a bunch of apps that make tracking cheaters easy as well. For instance, there are apps that record and track every message, text and call that goes out and allow you to remotely keep a check on what your partner has been upto.
You can find the perfect app to spy on your boyfriends phone. There are even keyboard tracking apps that track every key that is being typed on the device. So you will be able to know what your partner is searching and texting without having to bat an eyelid.
These recording apps work in the background, and are detectable only by the person who has installed it. However, you will have to have access to the device to be able to install it.
Take A Look At Their Snapchat
In case you didn’t know, Snapchat is a highly popular social media application that allows you to send disappearing messages. It is largely used to send racy pictures which eventually disappear, and needless to say, it is often used to engage in infidelity due to the discreet features of the app.
Now finding out what they’ve been upto on Snapchat can give you some pretty damning evidence, but the process of the same can be complicated due to the fact that Snapchat doesn’t allow you to scroll through past messages.
However, you can try and create an account of your own, with a different name and profile picture that isn’t yours, and try to approach your partner through Snapchat.
Use GPS To Track Their Location
Another perfect way to find out if your partner has been up to something sneaky is to track their location. Have they been coming home late recently, or have stopped telling you where they have been or what they have been upto?
Well, a GPS tracker will help you get to the bottom of the mystery. There are GPS tracking devices that you can place in their car or vehicle, but there are also mobile tracking apps that you can use.
For instance, apps like Find My Friend will allow you to know the location of your partner anytime, anywhere. Most apps also come with features that allow you to maintain utmost discretion.